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Intriguing Characters:
In this book we follow three women all of whom are the wives of pastors. They are all linked up together in this mega church that seems to be as popular as one being the president!
Each of these woman present to us a different perspective of being a pastors' wife. At first we are met with Candace. Candace who is by far exudes the perfection of being the ideal of everything a pastor's wife ought to be. She is somewhat cold, calculating, and in control of her emotions, thoughts, and actions in every way it seems. When it comes to her family she is passionate and loves them with a fierceness, but to others she seems to be distant and observant. She is in a sense takes on being the pastor's wife to the fullest in all its seriousness. She directs and orchestrates everything so as to leave her husband free to do what God wants him to do. She is the watchful eye of the whole mega church it seems! Inwardly she is always thinking "what can she do", "what is her purpose?". I feel like this is one of my favorite parts about her, is that she always asks herself what her purpose is.
Next is Ginger. Ginger poses as the wife who is like the Martha in the Bible. Serving, Doing, and laying down her own wants and desires for others. She presents the wife that seems to be the wallflower. Living underneath the pressure of Candace, she tends to judge herself and see herself through the eyes of Candace. She feels that her life is a misery living underneath such pressures and decides to take things into her own hands...in order to find purpose in her life besides simply being there to support her husband. She is not happy with her marriage or where she is in life--living beneath the seemingly condescending eyes of her mother in law Candace.
Ruthie. Now Ruthie took me by surprise. I cannot imagine what it would be like for a marriage to take on such change so quick. From ordinary woman and then become a pastor's wife in such a short amount of time! I do not know how I would take that news that life as I knew it would be so changed! What is more, is that from the beginning to the end she is struggling with one thing. Faith. Her faith in God. Her struggle in this all is almost like fitting in. She is a catholic unsure of her place in this megachurch. She also considers whether or not she belongs in such a place with her husband.
I am able to relate to these characters:
Maybe there is a Candace in every woman's mind including a pastor's wife. That perfect wife who is poised and in control of emotions and thoughts. I feel like she is incredulously perfect and I tend to hate her for it! Then towards the book events happen that make realize that indeed that even Candace is a human and has faults here and there and does have her breakdowns.
I can understand through Ginger's life how maybe a wife can feel the pressure of family members, congregation, and friends. That we become miserable under that scrutiny! Not to mention carrying a burden from her past. I feel like as women we tend to forget to forgive ourselves for sins and mistakes in the past. It can weigh us down if we do not believe in the grace and forgiveness of God. Another thing I learned through her life was that perhaps being under the shadow of her husband can be hard and tough. Not that we do not support our husband, but not seeing that we have a purpose as an individual can be a nightmare. I loved seeing her struggles, and cheered for her when she started taking a stand. There has to be a balance in the family--even if one is marrried to a pastor who is married to God!
Through Ruthie's life I can identify being in new places and not quite fitting in. Her faith in God is challenged and she is faced with the very real choice of does she even believe in God? I have never thought the wives of pastors could ever be faced with even a simple concept of faith in God.
Unexpected Plot:
I could not believe where the author, Lisa Cullen, took us! It was exciting and also unexpected outcome for all three of these ladies! I loved how the turn out was...and all their struggles sort of came to a head and surprised me. Though it always seems that something so big as a mega church needs something big as what happened to Candace's husband, Aaron Green. I felt myself really liking the ending a lot.
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The greatest problem humans have with petitionary prayer is one of perspective. This involves both time frames and objectives. They think mostly of today, or of the limited sphere of activity which they call their lives: the seventy or eighty years which to us and to the Adversary is indistinguishable from today. The Adversary is thinking of eternity. ....The Adversary is the Parent who knows what they need....
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